If you miss this person and it hurts your heart very much, remember all the times you gave this person the opportunity to treat you in the right way. Remember how many times you tried to fix the relationship while the other was comfortably sitting watching everything fall apart while you were carrying everything on your shoulders.
Remember all the times you gave love to this person when she gave you pain.
Remember all the times you apologized, justified, analyzed, over-thought.
Remember these things because they show you exactly what this relationship was.
A one-way relationship with a person who wanted to sit down and let you manage everything for them. And that’s neither fair nor love, nor something that has enough value for you to miss it. What you should miss today is someone who treats you with love, with respect.
That’s something you lose, you don’t lose someone who treats you as if you were less than nothing. Who has always treated you as if you were acquired, acquired. Who has always treated you as if you were just something that can be disposed of, that can be thrown in the trash as soon as it is no longer convenient. Remember these things because believe me, your heart feels strong, but your head knows.
When you’re with the right person, with someone who respects you, you don’t have the feeling of being completely crushed on everything she put on your back. When you’re with the right person, it’s easy, it’s love, it’s sweet, it’s what you deserve, you’re going to get there.